Not long after publishing Everyday Inspiration, I lost both of my parents. Mom passed away February 14th and Daddy on March 12th. Saying 2022 was a long year is an understatement. I had to step into a role I’d rather not have but my parents trusted me to take care of them even after they were gone. I was fortunate to have the help of a most caring lawyer who was a friend of my father. I had no idea how long it would take but, I have to say that every time I needed to see Mr. Hutson, it was a blessing. He and Daddy had very similar, admirable qualities. He helped me through so much more than legalities until the estate was finalized in April 2023. It was a very long road but I saw it through.
Grieving is personal – just as faith is. We all cope in different ways but if we don’t have an anchor, we can easily lose our way. In all honesty, I pray but when I don’t realize the answer, I can become discouraged. Where is my anchor? My father was mine and I was his. So I thought what now? I had to deal with grieving and realizing it’s important to really focus on living again. I had help from Margaret, a Duke Hospice counselor and lots of support, as always, from my husband Bobby. Sadly, I still couldn’t let go. Grieving took quite a bit of time but I am so fortunate to have a loving husband, daughter, son-in-law, precious granddaughter, my sister Susan and friends who care.
Now, just in time for Thanksgiving I am truly thankful to see things in a different and beautiful light. Finally, I can say that the pain and sadness is gone. I thank God for answering my prayers. May you all have a Happy Thanksgiving and abundant blessings!
"The LORD bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace." Numbers 6:24-26
I’m so glad to see you back writing and you were able to make peace with your loss and grieving that now you can fill yourself and enjoy all the happy memories of your parents. They were a special couple that brought joy into the lives of our entire family and friends that knew them. Many times they reached out and helped strangers or charities either by way of money, food or donating their time. I feel blessed that I had them and you in my life. Keep up the writing can’t wait the see your next post.
Kim, I’ve said so often “there is no time limit on grieving. We eventually come to terms with our loss by learning how differently to live without them. I am so glad that you are opening up and writing again. I look forward to reading more from you. Your sister, Lu
Love this so much!! You haven’t lost your anchor, he’s always with you in your heart ❤️ SO proud of you for getting back at it and writing again and I know Papa is too ❤️ Love you so much Mama!